Let me begin by saying that I don't think being obstinate is funny at all (especially when it's my kids). However I also believe that sometimes if you don't laugh you go crazy. Now here's the story:
I took the kids grocery shopping and ran some errands. I knew I was pushing it running into nap time but once you have the kids all bundled up and are already out you might as well get as much done as possible, right? Well on the way home they both fell asleep. Samuel stayed asleep in his car seat but I had to wake Grace up and take her inside. From the moment I woke her up in the van she was completely and totally unreasonable and ridiculous. Here is our conversation for the next several minutes:
Me: C'mon Grace we need to go inside.
Grace: I don't want to go inside.
(I carried her inside)
Me: Take off your coat and your shoes Marie.
Grace: I don't want to take off my coat and shoes! (from here on out the exclamation points represent what I like to call scream/cry-talking. I hope you know what I'm talking about).
(I yanked off her shoes and coat because I could see this was going downhill fast...we were beyond meltdown stage)
Me: Time to go up to bed.
Grace: I don't want to go up to bed!!
(I was becoming increasingly irritated so I threw her over my shoulder and carried her up to bed)
Me: Do you want your pigtails out? (She often complains that they hurt her head when she lays on them which is understandable)
Grace: Yes
(So I took them out)
Grace: I want my pigtails in!!!
Me: Too bad. You told me you wanted them out. Lay down and go to sleep.
Grace: I don't want to lay down, I want to sit up and CRY!!!!! (notice the amount of exclamation points)
(At this point she was being so completely ridiculous that I started laughing)
Grace: I don't want you to laugh at me!!!!!!!!
Me: It's hard not to laugh when you are being so unreasonable. I'm going downstairs so I don't have to listen to this anymore. (I then exited the room, laughing, and went downstairs)
Grace: I DON'T WANT YOU TO GO DOWNSTAIRS!!!!!!!!!!!
Holy moly. At this point I was thinking to myself, did I raise this child? What have I done? She was asleep before I even hit the bottom of the stairs and 2 hours later she was back to normal Grace. Thank God. I can only hope that someday she has a feisty little red-head just like her as payback. I think this kind of behavior must come from Steve because I was a sweet, quiet little girl that never misbehaved! :)